Autism & Anxiety Are Too Misunderstood.
Autism and anxiety are rarely explained clearly. Most people don’t know what masking is. Most don’t realize that anxiety can look completely different for someone on the spectrum. The result? People keep getting misread and left out.
That’s why I created this guide:
Meet the Founder
Hi, I’m Mabry. I’ve spent years learning how to communicate, manage anxiety, and be myself in a world that doesn’t always understand people like me.
I also love research. So I built a guide that explains what I’ve lived and what I’ve studied.
I spent months reading studies from Yale Medicine, the Mayo Clinic, and autism researchers. I took over 60 pages of notes. Then I translated everything into clear, simple language so people like you could use it.
This guide brings together research and lived experience to help autistic people feel supported and understood.
How do I use the Guide?

STEP 1
Get the Guide Today!

STEP 2
Read and Apply the Recommendations

STEP 3
Become the Advocate the World Needs!
What Happens If We Don’t Understand the Connection?
If we don’t teach people how autism and anxiety interact, the cycle continues.
- Autistic students continue to mask, inevitably leading to burning out
- They get mislabeled, overlooked, and unsupported
- People who want to help don’t quite know how
The free guide offers a clear place to start.
What Changes When We Understand Autism & Anxiety?
When people understand how autism and anxiety work together:
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- Autistic students feel safer and less isolated
- Masking decreases because support increases
- Teachers become more aware of anxiety triggers
- Parents feel more confident helping their kids
- Classmates grow more empathetic
Even small shifts in understanding can lead to a more inclusive world!
What the Research Says
A curated selection of studies and expert sources on the link between autism and anxiety; summarized in plain language with quotes that speak for themselves:
Autism and Anxiety - Individual Variation and Manifestations
This article explains how anxiety and autism often overlap. Adolescents and school-age children with autism show the highest levels of anxiety, and the symptoms of both conditions can worsen each other. The article emphasizes individual variation and points out how anxiety may show up as anger, appetite shifts, or trouble sleeping.
Direct Quotes:
- “Adolescents and school-age children with autism have the highest prevalence of clinical (40%) and subclinical anxiety (26%)…”
- “The symptoms of autism may make anxiety more challenging to manage…”
- “Each individual may experience the overlap between anxiety and autism differently…”
- “A person experiencing anxiety may lose their appetite or eat more than normal…”
Autism Research Institute. (n.d.).
[Read the full article here]
Anxiety and Autism - Exacerbating Factors and Lack of Awareness
This source explores how sensory environments and social communication challenges can amplify anxiety. It discusses masking, sensory triggers, and the high rate of diagnosable anxiety among autistic adults.
Direct Quotes:
- “Communication differences… may fuel social anxiety.”
- “Certain environments are more stressful…”
- “Over half of autistic adults will have a diagnosable anxiety disorder…”
- “Each person’s anxiety has a different set of triggers…”
Autistica. (n.d.).
[Read the full article here]
Anxiety in Children and Adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorders
This article focuses on how anxiety in autistic youth increases during adolescence. It highlights the importance of using multiple tools to diagnose anxiety and discusses how it may appear differently in autistic children.
Direct Quotes:
- “Anxiety and poor stress management are common concerns…”
- “The assessment… should be conducted using multiple informants…”
- “Recent studies have used better diagnostic instruments…”
- “Anxiety may have bidirectional effects…”
White, S. W., Oswald, D., Ollendick, T., & Scahill, L. (2009).
[Read the full article here]
CBT for Anxiety in Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders
This randomized trial shows how CBT can be adapted for autistic children—through visual aids, step-by-step skills, and involving parents. It proves CBT helps with emotion regulation and reduces avoidant behavior.
Direct Quotes:
- “CBT has been evaluated in >40 randomized studies…”
- “The core components of CBT include teaching emotion regulation skills…”
- “Given appropriate modifications… CBT may be helpful…”
- “CBT is a first line of treatment for anxiety…”
Wood, J. J., Drahota, A., Sze, K., Har, K., Chiu, A., & Langer, D. A. (2009).
[Read the full article here]
Childhood Stress and Anxiety - Early Support Makes a Difference
This article explains that anxiety is normal but, if untreated, can lead to depression or substance abuse. It introduces treatments like CBT and SPACE that support children and families.
Direct Quotes:
- “Anxiety is a normal human emotion that serves important functions…”
- “Untreated childhood anxiety [is linked] with mental illness in adulthood…”
- “Children with anxiety disorders commonly experience…”
- “The two most commonly used approaches are CBT and SPACE…”
Yale Medicine. (n.d.).
[Read the full article here]
Anxiety Disorders: Symptoms and Causes
This source outlines various anxiety disorders, physical symptoms like stomach issues, and causes such as trauma or genetics. It explains how anxiety often starts in childhood and can last into adulthood.
Direct Quotes:
- “Anxiety disorders involve repeated episodes of… intense anxiety…”
- “You may avoid places or situations…”
- “Common anxiety signs and symptoms include…”
- “The causes of anxiety disorders aren’t fully understood…”
Mayo Clinic. (n.d.).
[Read the full article here]
What Is Autism Spectrum Disorder?
This article defines autism and explains common symptoms- trouble with social skills, communication, or behavior. It emphasizes the wide range of presentations and how early diagnosis improves outcomes.
Direct Quotes:
- “The need for services… varies among individuals…”
- “In some cases… deficits may be pronounced when amongst their peers.”
- “Social communication deficits may include…”
American Psychiatric Association. (n.d.).
[Read the full article here]
Autism Spectrum Disorder: Symptoms and Causes
This article explores how symptoms vary and affect support needs. It notes that some kids may show early signs while others aren’t diagnosed until later—and that autistic people can lead fulfilling lives with the right support.
Direct Quotes:
- “Each child… is likely to have a unique pattern of behavior…”
- “Sometimes it can be hard to tell how severe the condition is.”
- “Children with autism… show fewer disturbances in behavior.”
- “Children… usually show signs of delayed development before they’re 3…”
Mayo Clinic. (n.d.).
[Read the full article here]
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is the guide intended for?
The guide serves anyone seeking to understand how anxiety impacts those with autistism, including friends, teachers, parents, and classmates. It is accessible for beginners and useful for those exploring their own experiences.
What does the guide cover?
The guide includes research summaries, explanations of masking, descriptions of anxiety symptoms, reasons why therapies like CBT are effective, real-life examples from school and home, and tips for both autistic and neurotypical individuals to promote support and understanding.
What distinguishes this guide?
The guide includes research summaries, explanations of masking, descriptions of anxiety symptoms, reasons why therapies like CBT are effective, real-life examples from school and home, and tips for both autistic and neurotypical individuals to promote support and understanding.
Is the guide useful for educators or therapists?
Yes, it provides a practical tool for professionals to recognize anxiety in autistic individuals, avoid misunderstandings, and respond effectively with actionable strategies and real-world context.
Can the guide be shared?
Yes, the guide is designed for sharing through printing, emailing, or posting on social media to raise awareness and foster positive change.
Does the guide include research and real-life examples?
Yes, it combines plain-language summaries of studies from reputable sources with relatable examples from school, home, and social settings, applicable across age groups.
How does the guide assist in supporting those with autism?
The guide explains how anxiety manifests in autistic individuals, details masking and its connection to anxiety, and provides practical ways to offer meaningful support, enhancing confidence for those helping someone they care about.
How long is the guide, and is reading it in full necessary?
The guide spans approximately 15 pages, concise yet insightful. Each section is self-contained, allowing readers to focus on sections relevant to their needs.
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Anxiety on the Spectrum is a student-led resource created to help autistic people feel
seen and supported- and to help others understand what they’re experiencing.



